Welcome Diana to the Practice

In our continued effort to provide affirming care to Rhode Island, we are pleased to announce the addition of a new colleague, Dr. Diana Greywolf. Diana approaches therapy in a way that is consistent with the philosophy that Wilder Therapy clients have come to expect – whole-person care that honors the diversity of human experience.

D greywolf (1)Diana is a licensed clinical psychologist with expertise in trauma, grief, gender identity concerns, sexuality and stress management for adolescents, adults, families, and couples. She has extensive training in eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR). She is deeply committed to providing trauma-informed care, in addition to working with folks who identify with the LGBTQIA community.

We are honored to welcome Diana to the practice.

**Now accepting new clients to begin work with Diana starting in July. Contact Wilder Therapy to schedule an appointment today.**


“I believe there is a time, or many times, in people’s lives when they need a hand or extra support. The bravest of those people are the one’s that put themselves out there and ask for help and support.” – Elliott Buelter

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We are pleased to officially welcome Elliott Buelter to our practice. Elliott is a wonderful and affirming therapist who demonstrates dedication in working with RI’s LGBT community.

Elliott received his Masters in Social Work from Rhode Island College. His primary clinical focus is working with children, adolescents, adults and their families. He specializes in working with the Trans* community and LGBA+ individuals. He was part of the RI Trans* Health Initiative, which worked to educate medical and mental health providers on affirming practices. Elliott has extensive experience working with trauma recovery. He believes that “therapy helps people to see the value in their lives and provides time and space to prioritize their needs.”

Elliott’s areas of specialty include:

  • Care for the Trans* community
  • Concerns related to gender identity and gender exploration
  • LGBTQA concerns
  • Spirituality concerns
  • Mood and depression management
  • Stress and anxiety
  • Adjustment to transitions
  • Trauma Recovery
  • Medical Trauma
  • Grief and bereavement
  • Academic underachievement
  • Domestic violence
  • Family conflict
  • Learning disabilities
  • Self esteem concerns
  • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
  • Relationship issues


He is currently accepting new clients. Right now, he can only see clients who have Neighborhood Health/Beacon and those who are self pay. Elliott has several evening and weekend appointments available.

The best way to connect with Elliott is call our main office line (401) 921-3600 or email us at wildertherapy@gmail.com. Be sure to specify that you are hoping to see Elliott so we can get you in right away.

Wilder Therapy Earns Safe Zone Certification

BCBS awardFor LBGTQA community, interacting with the medical and mental health care systems can be an overwhelming experience. Experiences ranging from overt discrimination to subtle aggressions in use of language by providers and office staff can create a hostile environment for our community. Research has shown that experiences of oppression, aggression and discrimination by health care providers are barriers to LGBTQA individuals seeking much-needed care.

In an effort to vet providers and inform the public of safe medical and mental health practices and facilities, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Rhode Island launched its Safe Zone Certification Program. Wilder Therapy & Wellness is pleased to announce that the practice has earned BCBS-RI’s certification as a practice that provides affirming care for the community.

Certification is granted to practices and facilities that commit to affirming care in a number of ways including ensuring ongoing training of staff in LGB and transgender care, developed nondiscrimination policies for both patients and staff, commitment to using preferred names and pronouns even when different from legal documents, commitment to public support of the community, and providing  facilities and resources. All practices and facilities that earn certification will be reviewed annually by BCBS-RI. 

Okay, we know it’s cold outside and the snow is piling up. For most of us, weather like this makes us want to hibernate and binge on Netflix (or to “Netflix and chill,” but that’s a different type of post). We aren’t usually thinking about getting our bodies moving this time of year. One of the unfortunate consequences for many of the winter hibernation is low mood and depression. Short days with little sunlight only compound that. One of the ways to combat low mood in the winter is to get up and get moving (not always the easiest when you are depressed). The truth is, taking care of your body is essential to boosting and maintaining mental health. That’s why for the rest of the winter, we will be focusing on the interaction between mental and physical health. Keep posted for information on ways to improve mental health through caring for your physical self.

It’s Snowing…Time to Get Moving.

“Let the Zombies Attack” – Life in Balance October Focus: Psychology and Pop Culture

by Dr. Jami Wilder

I love a great storywalking-dead. The more complicated, the better. I love twists and turns of a well written plot that catches me off-guard with an ending that I can’t anticipate. I adore deeply flawed and complex characters that draw from me a complicated swirl of emotion. I am drawn to how much a well written piece of literature, theater, or television reveals about the human experience, even when the piece isn’t necessarily about humans.

Which brings us to the upcoming season premiere of AMC’s The Walking Dead. For fans of the show, the Oct. 11 premiere will bring a new installment of life and death peril and dynamic, complicated human interactions that keep us watching season after season. As we at Wilder Therapy were talking over the show (and running through our individual and collective plans for surviving the zombie apocalypse), I was also intrigued at our draw to pop culture phenomenons and what we can learn about ourselves and the rest of humanity.

In case you haven’t guessed by now, we are proud nerds who do spend our free time talking about things like how zombies and psychology intersect, how Orange is the New Black spurred a Ruby Rose craze that led to new conversations about gender expression, and how the incomparable Shonda Rhimes is flipping the script on so many social issues. Our preoccupation with pop culture led to the selection of this month’s Life in Balance focus – Psychology and Pop Culture. All month long, we will be writing and posting about the intersection of the two. Our focus will also spill over onto our Twitter with Live Tweet event during the premiere of The Walking Dead on AMC at 9 p.m. (EST) Sunday, Oct. 11. (Stay tuned for more details on the event). We hope as you begin settling in for the fall and winter that you will join us throughout the month.

Jami Wilder, Psy.D. is a licensed clinical psychologist in Rhode Island and co-owner of Wilder Therapy and Wellness. She also has a couple of amazing survival plans should the zombies attack.